"So I’ve come to realize that sometimes life gives you things that you can’t handle. Sometimes things don’t go the way that we planned. Sometimes people change without notice. Sometimes loved ones leave for no reason at all. Sometimes I don’t understand my own thoughts, feelings and wants. Sometimes, there just isn’t an answer.
Always believe that the first statement is wrong. Always leave room for flexibility and change, it’s ultimately for the better. Always know that those loved ones who left, made an impact on your life; so be greatful. Always know that it’s normal to not know everything about yourself, always realize that indecisiveness can be a blessing. Always know there’s an answer, it’s just that the answer may not be what we want to hear.
I thank God everyday for making me complicated. For making my life my own. I thank Him for the people He’s blessed me with, and greatful for strangers who’ve touched my heart. Sure life is tough, life’s a mess. But without those obstacles, without the chaos of love, there would honestly be nothing to live for, nothing to strive for, nothing to become.
Breathe. Fail. Accept. & Try all over again, because trying again in itself is a success, a success in learning and growing in mistakes and wrong decisions our previous selves had made. We are constantly becoming different people. With every thought, action, and through all the people we meet. Learn to love every single second of who you are, and know that if you don’t like what you see, it’s only in your power to change it.
Time for a change; Actually, there’s never a specific time, it’s just inevitable.
So let’s not fight it, and use it in our favor."